We are who we are, because they were who they were.

~ the length of time it takes seems longer now; it seems the better we get at doing difficult things - that's baked-in, so I wonder, are we getting older, or slower, more methodical, or just better?

I remember an old guy joke, this is not ‘locker room humour’ but simply banter. And in my experience, women don’t find it offensive, but I realize their perspective might be different …

Here it is:

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