What were you thinking?

~ exactly - we ask that of others, we ask it of ourselves

Decisions are often as automatic as breathing - and too often without thought. We do things, say things, decide things … without much deliberation.

Yes, on serious things at work, at home - when consequences are obviously large, we deliberate, discuss, and decide. Or, at least we say that we are, though I just as often do all that paperwork, thinking and…